The minor vs The major

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     Everyday you wake up, it's a blessing. Yes, a blessing everyone knows that but not everyone appreciates it. What makes up this blessing is the fact the you were given a new day to live, and to make a difference in this world.

     When you start your day with a prayer, you know you will be alright throughout the day. Yet again, everyone prays in the morning for their desires, but not everyone prays consciously.

     These days, respect seems to be lacking in our actions. Everything we do, we're missing something important, appreciation and respect. We seem to forget that the people we work with, and the ones serving us are actually people in return. They have their own lives, their own issues, and their own concerns. We seem to lack notice of that and think the world revolve around ourselves only. Why do we forget that these people may be having a bad day and are forcing themselves to smile and serve us with their best, why do we seem to forget that they maybe experiencing the best day of their lives and forget to say something nice just to add a little more joy to their lives? Why does this seem too hard to perform?

     Funny to mention, it is way too easy to show off and dive into other people's private lives. It is also way too easy to follow the trends and the latest hypocrisy trends, yet too hard to show appreciation and to respect..what is this turning us into...monsters day by day.

     This scares me of the day future becomes near, and their is no decency and kindness amongst people, this may seem scary indeed but still in return I appreciate and respect the very few 1% of this population that really thinks the way I do, that still respects and appreciates and prays sincerely from the bottom of their heart.

     May people like you replicate and outgrow the ones that don't give a shit about anything but themselves.

Laying it all out

Humans, in a sense tend to hold things in for sometime. Some can hold them in forever, others tolerate them for sometime and seek right person to vent to. The biggest fear is not being understood well and not being taken seriously. Somethings are inevitable, while other are simply avoidable, but if you were smart enough you'd know what to do because after all nothing matters, you are the one that makes the smallest/ biggest thing matter. 

From experience, it's quite difficult to find the right person to talk to and put everything you've been holding in out there , yet the right person has always been the closest one, or even the one you never thought would hear you out carefully and seriously. It's a changeable equation to most of us, sometimes the closest person is not the right one to hear you out, or at least not at the moment.

It's a matter of having someone who understands you and someone who can actually make you feel a lot better by just letting you lay it all out and hear what you have to say. Sometimes that's more than enough because as people keep accumulating all those feelings and troubles inside of them they get to the point where they just want to let it all out and feel good about doing so. They do not want to let it all out and feel terrible because that's not what they should be feeling in the aftermath. Again, it's a matter of what you want to do.

The best thing , however, is to be able to take action as soon as possible before it's too late. If you've got something to say, then do not keep it in because you never know if you'd be given the chance to actually ever say it. This leads to regret, one of life's worst feelings. The wisest choice is to say whatever you want to say at that moment, regardless of the situation, again you will 100% end up feeling great about yourself.

The bottom line is, it's a matter of choice again..but still that doesn't make us any different from each other in any way, it actually makes us all the same.

Do not avoid it...Face it

"It is difficult to be patient, but to waste the rewards of patience is even worse" - Abu Bakr (Radiya Allahu Anh)

It’s already the 11th of July and the 2nd Friday of our holy month, the month of “Ramadan”. I’m quite surprised that it’s already the 13 of Ramadan already, time flew so fast it feels really scary. A few days ago we were welcoming Ramadan and now it’s almost the half of it, I’m just wondering if Allah accepted all the prayers of what passed and if Allah if going to help us make it through till the end. For that I’m always hoping that Allah is going to give us the strength to keep doing good till the last minute and even continue doing good after Ramadan.Most importantly I'm praying for Allah to accept all prayers.

Moving on to the highlight of this post, so for the past days I’ve been faced by a few interesting obstacles that made me sit back and look at what I was facing from multiple perspectives and to my surprise, I felt blessed. All these obstacles are just blessing and as we always say back here “ You should be thankful because others are going through worse”. However, no matter how bad your situation is, or no matter how helpless the obstacles and breaks make you feel you should be thankful for everything because you never know why you’re going through all of this. It hurts and I completely agree, It bothers you so much you just want to leave everything behind and go somewhere no one can find you, but that’s not the solution it’s just the act of a coward. You’re not doing anything but run away. My dear mother has always told me to face my problems and never run away from them because once you try to make it seem like there is no issue from the start and make yourself believe then that’s when you start ruining yourself.You have to acknowledge what’s happening and try to move around the cause or stop it. It’s going to take sometime no doubt about it but do not run away, things will just get worse and you’ll suffer even more.

A little friendly word to all of you out there, be strong and try to stop the cause to move on.

Good night people of this world :-)