Humans, in a sense tend to hold things in for sometime. Some can hold them in forever, others tolerate them for sometime and seek right person to vent to. The biggest fear is not being understood well and not being taken seriously. Somethings are inevitable, while other are simply avoidable, but if you were smart enough you'd know what to do because after all nothing matters, you are the one that makes the smallest/ biggest thing matter.
From experience, it's quite difficult to find the right person to talk to and put everything you've been holding in out there , yet the right person has always been the closest one, or even the one you never thought would hear you out carefully and seriously. It's a changeable equation to most of us, sometimes the closest person is not the right one to hear you out, or at least not at the moment.
It's a matter of having someone who understands you and someone who can actually make you feel a lot better by just letting you lay it all out and hear what you have to say. Sometimes that's more than enough because as people keep accumulating all those feelings and troubles inside of them they get to the point where they just want to let it all out and feel good about doing so. They do not want to let it all out and feel terrible because that's not what they should be feeling in the aftermath. Again, it's a matter of what you want to do.
The best thing , however, is to be able to take action as soon as possible before it's too late. If you've got something to say, then do not keep it in because you never know if you'd be given the chance to actually ever say it. This leads to regret, one of life's worst feelings. The wisest choice is to say whatever you want to say at that moment, regardless of the situation, again you will 100% end up feeling great about yourself.
The bottom line is, it's a matter of choice again..but still that doesn't make us any different from each other in any way, it actually makes us all the same.
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