The limit

See yourself in others, just like you want things, they also do.

Just like having a start, there is always an end. Nonetheless, there is a limit.

A human being can tolerate just as much as he/she can, however, this does not mean that they will always be able to bare the weight of accepting everything that comes their way. People always said to treat others with your morals ad be who you really are, when you show people the true person you really are, they might accept you and they might not. But that's not for you to care about, after all you are you and no one can change that. The only thing that matters here is if you accept yourself, if you don't then that's where the problem lies. How can you not be confident of who your are? Some say it's a little difficult to accept the real you, but I don't see what's difficult about it..I mean should you find a solution and forcefully accept yourself?...you are yourself whether you like it or not, you can change to the better or you can stay the way you are..after all you will always be you...period.

Talking about having a limit is the main reason for all the words to spill...if someone accept everything you do you should be smart enough to know that there's a point to it all...you should stop at some time to appreciate or to at least show that you care...appreciate what your receiving...that someone has put the effort to listen to your words and to listen to whatever you have to say....just be grateful for that...and remember that just like you have the need and urge to have someone like that...they also have the same feelings and desires...always remember that.

Acceptance

“Cry. Forgive. Learn. Move on. Let your tears water the seeds of your future happiness.” 
― Steve Maraboli

That quote digs deep into me for some reason. Although it doesn't define my current situation to that extent but I think I can partially relate to it. Sometimes, I find it a little difficult to stop thinking of what happened, it's like I'm still living in the past when things have actually passed and it's basically time to move on and just accept what happened. I'm defining it as a shock, but a not a 'shock' in that way, it's more like a 'new concept' being introduced in my life. However, the thing is that I'm doing my best and sudden;y I do not receive in return what I except, that seems kind of ironic but why did I ever except to get what I want? My mom always told me not to except too much and not to put high hopes, she always told me to be ready to brace what was yet to come, I should've comprehend her words better. I think I am at the moment, we always thought our parent just talked nonsense, well the 'nonsense' we heard all the time really does make sense now that we understand it. Nonsense might be a little harsh, I'll have to rephrase it was ' big talk'.

Anyways. right now I'm in a state where the words in my head are being typed out randomly, but these words were actually bothering me for some time and I had to type them out. Maybe people out there can relate, I bet some do exist. I've heard of doppelgängers but never met my own, I've also heard that people can think in the same way and can relate to things similarly, now that  I have seen. 

It's fascinating how that happens though, like meeting a person you have nothing in common with, and suddenly you get to know you think alike and share the same ideas somehow...intersting I must say. 

This is the time where I run out of words and work on moving on and accepting the facts.