Rejection

    We have always heard about rejections and not being accepted whether it's a job, or any other opportunity where a group of people are brought together to make one shine out the brightest. However, what we did not know is the feelings we get when we are rejected. If we made it through, did we really know what the other who did not make it through feel like? I don't really think so, the beauty of rejection is when you want something really bad, so bad you start to ache from the rejection you got, that is when you start to really work for it. That is when you do not stop like others, that is when you decide fuel yourself with that rejection and start to move forward and give it another try. I have come to learn that when you face set backs and obstacles, that is when you really know you wanted something really bad more than anything. Because you want it so bad, you start to get started on looking again and on working harder than you have the time before.

    The beauty of it comes in you believing that you have a better chance to come, maybe it will be the next, maybe it will be after several trials and attempts, you never really know until you reach for it. Will you be rejected, and you will be criticized, but it is only the smart and persistent that really fuel up with that and move stronger than before to what they want.

    It's part of life's race. Those who fall down and put in the effort to get back up, and those who want to give up because they are running out of energy, that is the beauty of this race. 

There's a lot of people, but not so much that reach the end, their goals and desires.

Your actions reflect your behavior

I have recently experienced a couple of incidents that got me thinking way too much.I was taken back by how people  behave and how they act out and say "what's the big deal?" To me that was a really BIG deal.

Take this incident for example. What would you do or how would you personally feel if suddenly , out of the blue and out of nowhere you were being insulted and accused of things you haven't done and haven't had a record of doing in the past? How painful and shocking would that be? I bet it would be devastating, well yesterday one of the greatest people in the place I attend said : I was insulted and for no reason. I can never forget the look on his face!! I mean he does not even have a "black-record" and everyone knows it, plus everyone stood by his side and we were all literally SHOCKED to hear he had to experience that, god I felt really bad for him , he looked so small in front of us ...whoever did that must have some serious mental problems.Poor him, I hope he doesn't take it to heart and just let it be, but still it hurts.


Then moving on to a typical incident in the life of a hard-working student.So here's the thing, I'm a person that has great passion in learning and keeping myself busy with interesting things. However, what really bothers me is someone who out of "nowhere" suddenly decides to get help from Google and say " This is who I am". It's really pathetic but what can I say, people are different...but sometimes when you think of it it really gets into you..but to get over with it you're supposed to just "let it go". But the thing is no matter how much you try to let it go, it just keeps hunting you down and yet again bothers you. So from now on, whatever .

Have a great weekend :)

Winter Break kick-off

Working out my way through my career is what I planned to do.

My goal was pretty clear, that's why everything goes smoothly.

I never thought I would have a path, it was always nonsense back in the days. Now that I'm living it, it actually makes a lot of sense. As a high school student, teachers always said : You should have a goal, you should make a choice and all that. It was a challenge at first, but then it became really boring.

High school was the first step, now, what I'm doing is walking through the second step. It's not as easy as I thought it would be. I've always thought High school was a nightmare, it really was. In the end it was ALL worth it, and I know once this second step is built, it is going to be even triple the worth.

Hanging in there, is the solution. You are not the only one going through this. You're like one in a trillion in this world. If they can bare with it, it should not be a problem for you right?

Happy Winter break! ;D

It's time to give it a real break, just what I needed =)