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There are a lot of reasons why we came out different, with different personalities, beliefs, preferences and even opinions. We never meet people that share the exact thoughts as we do, there's always a conflict, have it a desirable one or simply an undesirable one.
There's one pitfall most people fall into though, they simply fail to acknowledge the fact that we are actually different than one another for a reason. Imagine living in a world where everyone thinks the same way, everyone follows the same beliefs, same way of behaviour etc. That means the world is populated with infinite clones of one person and one person only. How boring is that going to be?
Living with no arguments, no challenges , and no contradictions. That's not it. However, people should learn to accept where others come from, what they have to say and what they think. They can be on the same page, and they can be on completely different pages but still maintain that smooth talk where one will eventually outgrow the other, or when both of them accept what the other has to say but still to what they know.
Eventually, it all goes down to what you want to do, whether its the pleasure of listening to what other have to say or simply put in all your effort to start an argument out of nothing.
The best part of being different is merely having different preferences and hobbies. We do meet people that share the same hobby, but believe it or not, they're also different. How is that possible? It just is. People that share the same hobby, share the same concept because they both enjoy practising a certain activity, however, they do it for a different purpose. Some people are paid to take pictures, it's their source of living. Others simply find mental peace as they capture moments they only can see. See, it's the same activity, but the motives differ. That's pretty fascinating.
Being different isn't something to be ashamed off, it's to be proud of. Once you accept the fact that we're all different in our own way, then life will open up marvellous doors. You'll get to meet new people, people from literally the other side of the globe. You'd get to communicate with people that share the same date of birth as you are and feel creepy about that for some reason. You'll get the chance to strongly point in your thoughts while you accept others and find support to what you're trying to point out. That's what life is all about.
If you came to accept that, then you're going to experience a whole different side of life you were this close of missing out on.
"Learn to accept and always be humble, for our source of existence is literally identical." ~E.Bliss
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