Finally happened!

"There's no other love like the love for a brother.  There's no other love like the love from a brother."  ~Terri Guillemets

It's been about 3 years since it last happened. People always made it seem very easy, I never knew it was going to be this difficult. It made me really scared sometimes although I really wanted to make it happen and just love it.However, now that it actually happened I can not believe it happened. My mother and I thought it was going to be just like the last one, never completed, but this time, it was completed. Very well completed. Back in time, when my mom decided to give them a visit, she wasn't as nervous and excited as she used to be, she was normal, I was normal...we all were normal because we basically expected a refusal. 

It was time for the visit I never knew about, and I still do not know about, my mom was normal. Not excited, not nervous, not anxious, she was just believing in God. Right after she came back, I never asked her about the visit, I wanted to ask her, but I was caught up with my stidues I totally forgot about it myself. Then came the day where we got accepted. The day we got to 3 years ago and not for the first time. It did not feel that different, it was just like those times. Anyways, it got to the men's official visit and we got accepted again. Happy? Astonished and still in complete shock.

I couldn't express nor explain myself to anyone. My mom just read me like an open book as soon as she lay eyes  on me. That's how she always is, my mother. Anyways, things began to brighten up and all the excitement and happiness began to show, I couldn't find the logical reason to hold it back. I mean , God has brought happiness into your house, why not cherish that? I did cherish it, but my mom was still in disbelief, she always said to me: "I'm afraid it won't be fulfilled" That always broke my heart, she has every right to be happy, she has waited for this moment for ages!
I just did not want her to regret it.

On the 19th of December, it was the day we've all been waiting for. The day he got engaged and things were settled. We can be happy, nothing can stop us.

The moment I lay eyes on her, I went into instant shock. I couldn't believe it, she was the one, was she? The one we've been waiting for for the past years? After all the searches and hunts...she was the one....she lived up to that level.

She was so nervous I could not help but tear up. I wasn't crying really, they were tears of happiness, words can not explain what that was all about, but definitely they were tears of happiness. How did that happen? I still do not know.

She sat right across of me, and I couldn't lay eyes on her, she was really pretty, she was the one.

Wrapping up the event, this is going to be a night worth remembering for a thousand years, and as long as I live.

May God bless them!